What Is Your Toxic Dating Pattern?
The Fixer · The Runner · The Chaser · The Ghost · The Settler
Repeating relationship problems usually have a pattern underneath them. This 10-question quiz reveals whether you tend to fix, run, chase, ghost, or settle — so you can name the cycle and start breaking it.
10 questions · Free · Instant results
Which result will you get?
How the quiz works
You will answer 10 dating and relationship scenarios. Each answer maps to one of five patterns, and your most consistent response reveals the dynamic that keeps showing up in your love life.
Frequently asked questions
What is a toxic dating pattern?
It is a repeating dynamic — like fixer, runner, chaser, ghost, or settler — that keeps showing up in your relationships and keeps you from healthy, secure love.
How does this quiz identify my pattern?
You answer 10 dating scenarios, and each choice maps to one of five patterns. Your most consistent response reveals the dynamic that keeps showing up in your love life.
Does this quiz diagnose my relationship?
No. It highlights your own recurring pattern rather than providing a clinical diagnosis of a relationship.
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